Short answer: Aries aren’t inherently distant. They’re direct, fiery initiators who chase what lights them up. But they can seem aloof or emotionally distant when they’re bored, overstimulated, or protecting their independence. Their fast pace means they move on quickly or go quiet to reset. If your Aries feels far away, it’s usually about momentum and autonomy—not a missing heart.

Try matching their tempo without abandoning your own. Be upfront: name what you need and offer a clear plan or mini-adventure to reignite engagement. Give them breathable space that isn’t a punishment, then reconnect with specificity—time, place, and purpose. If distance persists, ask for consistency you can count on. Healthy Aries energy loves decisive check-ins, honest boundaries, and goals you can tackle together.