Some Virgos can seem passive-aggressive when they avoid confrontation and let critiques drip out through hints, sighs, or perfectionist edits. Their intent is usually to help or keep harmony, not to manipulate. If you're catching mixed signals, you're not imagining it - high standards, overthinking, and fear of conflict can make delivery indirect even when the message is sincere.

To handle it, ask for specifics and timelines, and invite direct feedback: 'What exactly would you change?' Affirm their intent, then set boundaries around tone and pace. If you're the Virgo, try naming expectations upfront, use 'I' statements, and ask before offering fixes. Clarity, kindness, and written agreements turn nitpicks into collaboration - and reduce the pressure that fuels indirect jabs.