No, Sagittarius aren't inherently selfish, but their fierce independence, blunt honesty, and hunger for freedom can look that way. If you've felt sidelined by a Sag's last-minute pivot or solo adventure, you're not imagining it. In astrology, this fire sign prioritizes growth and experience, which can overshadow etiquette. The intent is rarely harm; it's usually momentum, curiosity, and a belief that space keeps relationships healthier.

Context matters: Jupiter-ruled Sagittarians thrive on possibility, not possession. If you love one, or are one, channel that drive thoughtfully. Name the impact ('I felt dropped') and the need ('please confirm by noon'). Offer flexible structures: shared calendars, travel windows, solo time balanced with quality rituals. Sags: practice pre-commitment, text the heads-up, and follow through. Freedom lands better when it includes consideration and clear agreements.