Original Advice

You haven't stated your needs.: You're calling it 'cold' because you're waiting for them to match your tempo or read your mind. Sagittarius prioritizes freedom, so without clear asks and boundaries, they default to autonomy. If that feels bad, say what you want - or step back.

Trade Hints For Heat

You keep labeling them 'cold' while refusing to give them a thermostat. You're running a mind-reading experiment, then grading them for failing it. Sagittarius hears silence as permission to wander. When you don't set asks or limits, they sprint toward autonomy. That's not cruelty; it's design. Call it what it is: unspoken need, disguised as judgment. Speak, or watch the distance grow.

Freedom is their native climate: fire needs oxygen, not hints. They move fast toward the far horizon, trusting blunt signals, not subtext. Vague warmth feels like fog; they steer by visible stars. Give them coordinates—what, when, how—and you'll see heat return. With clear boundaries, autonomy becomes collaboration. Without them, they conserve energy, not affection. The chill you feel is the vacuum you created.

Cosmic Context

Mutable fire, ruled by Jupiter, hates guesswork. The Archer follows candor and maps, not hints and tests.

Action

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Text them exactly what you want, with a deadline.

You are allowed to be unmistakable—and to walk if clarity is ignored.