Original Advice
“DO: Communicate expectations early, in plain language.”
State Fidelity Before Fantasy
Say the rules before the kiss. Cheaters thrive in fog; your silence is their alibi. If you don’t define fidelity, someone else will define it around you. Stop praying for telepathy. Name what counts as betrayal. Name how you expect to be updated, introduced, protected. Dreaminess is not a contract. Clarity is. Speak early enough to scare off the opportunists.
Plain language is a lock on the door. It removes loopholes, not romance. When you say, out loud, what partnership means, you save time, dignity, and receipts. Early terms invite real consent. People who want you lean in; people who want options evaporate. That’s not loss. That’s sorting. You are not difficult for being direct. You are difficult to exploit.
Cosmic Context
Mutable water blurs lines and forgives too fast. Build edges with sentences; let Neptune handle the poetry.
Action
──────Say this on the first date: 'I require monogamy and transparency.'
✨ You are allowed to ask for exactly what you want and exit when it’s not offered. ✨